I have no issues loading V2M patches here. Please be aware that V2 evolved over the years, and not every V2M file may be compatible with the specific version of the V2 plugin you are using. V2 is old and unmaintained. Do you see the same crash happening in another plugin host?

Stack trace of the crash:

    07718430()  Unknown
    [Frames below may be incorrect and/or missing]  
    user32.dll!UserCallWinProcCheckWow(struct _ACTIVATION_CONTEXT *,void *,struct HWND__ *,enum _WM_VALUE,unsigned int,long,void *,int) Unknown
    user32.dll!DispatchClientMessage()  Unknown
    user32.dll!__fnINLPCREATESTRUCT()   Unknown
    ntdll.dll!_KiUserCallbackDispatcher@12()    Unknown
    user32.dll!_CreateWindowInternal@64()   Unknown
    user32.dll!_CreateWindowExA@48()    Unknown
    v2e1337.tmp!08e54663()  Unknown
>   OpenMPT.exe!CVstPlugin::Dispatch::__l6::<lambda_1>::operator()() Line 1223  C++
    OpenMPT.exe!Windows::SEH::TryFilterHandleVoid<`CVstPlugin::Dispatch'::`6'::<lambda_1>,`Windows::SEH::TryOrError<`CVstPlugin::Dispatch'::`6'::<lambda_1>>'::`2'::<lambda_1>,`Windows::SEH::TryOrError<`CVstPlugin::Dispatch'::`6'::<lambda_1>>'::`2'::<lambda_2>>(const CVstPlugin::Dispatch::__l6::<lambda_1> & fn, const Windows::SEH::TryOrError::__l2::<lambda_1> & handler, const Windows::SEH::TryOrError::__l2::<lambda_2> &) Line 85 C++

This is a crash triggered by V2 code. Nothing OpenMPT can fix. You can load V2 via the plugin bridge (which you should always do with V2 due to its various issues), then it won't crash the entire OpenMPT process.

i did load via plugin bridge and still get the same crash

As I say, the plugin bridge doesn't prevent the crash, it just avoids killing the entire OpenMPT process with the crash, which is a bit less annoying. There are many buggy plugins out there, it's not OpenMPT's fault if the crash.